1 Timothy 3:2

So the pastor must be a man above reproach, must have only one wife, must be temperate, sensible, well-behaved, hospitable, skillful in teaching;

1 Timothy 3:4-5

managing his own house well, with perfect seriousness keeping his children under control

1 Timothy 3:11-12

The deaconesses too must be serious, not gossips; they must be temperate and perfectly trustworthy.

Titus 1:6

each elder must be above reproach, have only one wife, and his children must not be liable to the charge of profligacy or disobedience.

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Summary

Neither shall they take for their wives a widow, nor her that is put away: but they shall take maidens of the seed of the house of Israel, or a widow that had a priest before.

Bible References

A widow

1 Timothy 3:2
So the pastor must be a man above reproach, must have only one wife, must be temperate, sensible, well-behaved, hospitable, skillful in teaching;
Titus 1:6
each elder must be above reproach, have only one wife, and his children must not be liable to the charge of profligacy or disobedience.