1 Kings 12:7

They advised him, "If today you are a servant, you will serve this people by answering them and speaking kindly to them. Then they will serve you forever."

Proverbs 15:1

A gentle response diverts anger, but a harsh statement incites fury.

2 Samuel 15:3-6

Absalom would respond, "Look, your claims are valid and defensible, but nobody will listen to you on behalf of the king.

1 Kings 12:13

But the king gave the people a harsh response, because he was ignoring the counsel that his elders had given him.

2 Chronicles 10:6-7

while King Rehoboam conferred with his advisors who had worked with his father Solomon during his administration. He asked them, "What is your advice as to what response I should return to these people?"

Ecclesiastes 10:4

If your overseer gets angry at you, don't resign, because calmness pacifies great offenses.

Zechariah 1:13

So the LORD answered the angel who was speaking to me with kind and comforting words.

Mark 10:43-44

That's not the way it should be among you. Instead, whoever wants to become great among you must be your servant,

Philippians 2:7-11

Instead, poured out in emptiness, a servant's form did he possess, a mortal man becoming. In human form he chose to be,

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Summary

And they spake unto him, saying, If thou wilt be a servant unto this people this day, and wilt serve them, and answer them, and speak good words to them, then they will be thy servants for ever.

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Bible References

If thou wilt

2 Chronicles 10:6
while King Rehoboam conferred with his advisors who had worked with his father Solomon during his administration. He asked them, "What is your advice as to what response I should return to these people?"
Proverbs 15:1
A gentle response diverts anger, but a harsh statement incites fury.
Mark 10:43
That's not the way it should be among you. Instead, whoever wants to become great among you must be your servant,
Philippians 2:7
Instead, poured out in emptiness, a servant's form did he possess, a mortal man becoming. In human form he chose to be,

Speak good

1 Kings 12:13
But the king gave the people a harsh response, because he was ignoring the counsel that his elders had given him.
2 Samuel 15:3
Absalom would respond, "Look, your claims are valid and defensible, but nobody will listen to you on behalf of the king.
Ecclesiastes 10:4
If your overseer gets angry at you, don't resign, because calmness pacifies great offenses.
Zechariah 1:13
So the LORD answered the angel who was speaking to me with kind and comforting words.

General references

Job 32:7
I thought, experience should speak; abundance of years teaches wisdom.

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