1 Timothy 3:12

Let helpers be husbands of one wife, ruling children and their own houses well.

The overseer therefore must be blameless, the husband of one wife, without wine, serious minded, disciplined, loving strangers, able to teach,

Paul and Timothy, bondmen of Jesus Christ, to all the sanctified in Jesus Christ who are at Philippi, with the guardians and helpers:

a man who rules his own house well, having children in subjection with all propriety

Helpers likewise, be honorable, not double-tongued, not attending to much wine, not greedy of base gain,

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Let the deacons be the husbands of one wife, ruling their children and their own houses well.

The overseer therefore must be blameless, the husband of one wife, without wine, serious minded, disciplined, loving strangers, able to teach,