1 Timothy 3:12

Let deacons each be the husband of one wife, managing their children and their own households well.

Therefore an overseer must be above reproach, the husband of one wife,sober-minded, self-controlled, respectable, hospitable, able to teach,

Paul and Timothy, servants of Christ Jesus, To all the saints in Christ Jesus who are at Philippi, with the overseers and deacons:

He must manage his own household well, with all dignity keeping his children submissive,

Deacons likewise must be dignified, not double-tongued,not addicted to much wine, not greedy for dishonest gain.

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Let the deacons be the husbands of one wife, ruling their children and their own houses well.

Therefore an overseer must be above reproach, the husband of one wife,sober-minded, self-controlled, respectable, hospitable, able to teach,