1 Timothy 3:12

A deacon too must have only one wife, and manage his children and household well.

So the pastor must be a man above reproach, must have only one wife, must be temperate, sensible, well-behaved, hospitable, skillful in teaching;

Paul and Timothy, slaves of Christ Jesus, to all God's people in union with Christ Jesus who are at Philippi, with the overseers and assistants:

managing his own house well, with perfect seriousness keeping his children under control

Deacons, too, must be serious, sincere in their talk, not addicted to strong drink or dishonest gain,

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Let the deacons be the husbands of one wife, ruling their children and their own houses well.

So the pastor must be a man above reproach, must have only one wife, must be temperate, sensible, well-behaved, hospitable, skillful in teaching;