2 Samuel 19:43

And the men of Israel answered the men of Judah and said, I have ten parts in the king and I have also more right in David than thou; and why didst thou slight me? and was not my advice the first, to bring back my king? And the words of the men of Judah were harsher than the words of the men of Israel.

2 Samuel 5:1

Then came all the tribes of Israel to David to Hebron, and spoke, saying, Behold, we are thy bone and thy flesh.

Galatians 5:20

idolatry, sorcery, hatred, strifes, jealousies, angers, contentions, disputes, schools of opinion,

Judges 8:1

And the men of E'phraim said to him, "What is this that you have done to us, not to call us when you went to fight with Mid'ian?" And they upbraided him violently.

Judges 9:23

And God sent an evil spirit between Abim'elech and the men of Shechem; and the men of Shechem dealt treacherously with Abim'elech;

Judges 12:1-6

The men of E'phraim were called to arms, and they crossed to Zaphon and said to Jephthah, "Why did you cross over to fight against the Ammonites, and did not call us to go with you? We will burn your house over you with fire."

2 Samuel 19:9

And all the people were at strife throughout the tribes of Israel, saying, The king delivered us out of the hand of our enemies, and he saved us out of the hand of the Philistines; and now he is fled out of the land because of Absalom.

2 Samuel 19:14

And he bowed the heart of all the men of Judah as of one man; and they sent to the king, Return, thou and all thy servants.

2 Samuel 20:1

And there happened to be there a man of Belial, whose name was Sheba, the son of Bichri, a Benjaminite; and he blew a trumpet, and said, We have no portion in David, neither have we inheritance in the son of Jesse: every man to his tents, Israel.

2 Samuel 20:6

And David said to Abishai, Now shall Sheba the son of Bichri do us more harm than did Absalom. Take thou thy lord's servants, and pursue after him, lest he get him fortified cities and escape our sight.

1 Kings 11:30-31

Then Ahijah seized the new garment that was on him, and rent it in twelve pieces;

1 Kings 12:16

And all Israel saw that the king hearkened not to them; and the people answered the king saying, What portion have we in David? And we have no inheritance in the son of Jesse: To your tents, O Israel! Now see to thine own house, David! And Israel went to their tents.

Proverbs 13:10

By pride there only cometh contention; but with the well-advised is wisdom.

Proverbs 15:1

A soft answer turneth away fury; but a grievous word stirreth up anger.

Proverbs 17:14

The beginning of contention is as when one letteth out water; therefore leave off strife before it become vehement.

Proverbs 18:19

A brother offended is harder to be won than a strong city; and contentions are as the bars of a palace.

Romans 12:21

Be not overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.

Galatians 5:15

but if ye bite and devour one another, see that ye are not consumed one of another.

Galatians 5:26

Let us not become vain-glorious, provoking one another, envying one another.

Philippians 2:3

let nothing be in the spirit of strife or vain glory, but, in lowliness of mind, each esteeming the other as more excellent than themselves;

James 1:20

for man's wrath does not work God's righteousness.

James 3:2-10

For we all often offend. If any one offend not in word, he is a perfect man, able to bridle the whole body too.

James 3:14-16

but if ye have bitter emulation and strife in your hearts, do not boast and lie against the truth.

James 4:1-5

Whence come wars and whence fightings among you? Is it not thence, from your pleasures, which war in your members?

Treasury of Scripture Knowledge

Summary

And the men of Israel answered the men of Judah, and said, We have ten parts in the king, and we have also more right in David than ye: why then did ye despise us, that our advice should not be first had in bringing back our king? And the words of the men of Judah were fiercer than the words of the men of Israel.

General references

Bible References

We have

2 Samuel 20:1
And there happened to be there a man of Belial, whose name was Sheba, the son of Bichri, a Benjaminite; and he blew a trumpet, and said, We have no portion in David, neither have we inheritance in the son of Jesse: every man to his tents, Israel.
1 Kings 12:16
And all Israel saw that the king hearkened not to them; and the people answered the king saying, What portion have we in David? And we have no inheritance in the son of Jesse: To your tents, O Israel! Now see to thine own house, David! And Israel went to their tents.

Ten parts

2 Samuel 5:1
Then came all the tribes of Israel to David to Hebron, and spoke, saying, Behold, we are thy bone and thy flesh.
Proverbs 13:10
By pride there only cometh contention; but with the well-advised is wisdom.

Our advice

2 Samuel 19:9
And all the people were at strife throughout the tribes of Israel, saying, The king delivered us out of the hand of our enemies, and he saved us out of the hand of the Philistines; and now he is fled out of the land because of Absalom.
Galatians 5:20
idolatry, sorcery, hatred, strifes, jealousies, angers, contentions, disputes, schools of opinion,
Philippians 2:3
let nothing be in the spirit of strife or vain glory, but, in lowliness of mind, each esteeming the other as more excellent than themselves;

General references

Proverbs 26:4
Answer not a fool according to his folly, lest thou also be like unto him.