Ephesians 5:33
Moreover you also each one thus love his own wife with divine love as himself; and that the wife also reverence the husband.
Ephesians 5:25
Husbands, love your wives with divine love, as Christ also loved the church with divine love, and gave himself for her;
Ephesians 5:22
Wives, be submissive to your own husbands, as to the Lord,
Ephesians 5:28-29
So the husbands ought to love their own wives with divine love as their own bodies. The one loving his own wife is loving himself:
Colossians 3:19
Ye husbands, love your wives with divine love, and be not harsh towards them.
Hebrews 12:9
Then indeed, we had fathers of our flesh who chastised us, and we endured: how much more then shall we submit to the Father of spirits, and live?
1 Peter 3:2-7
beholding your chaste deportment which is with reverence: