Judges 11:12
Then Jephthah sent messengers to the king of the Ammonites and said, "What do you have against me, that you have come to me to fight against my land?"
Numbers 20:14
Moses sent messengers from Kadesh to the king of Edom: "Thus says your brother Israel: You know all the hardship that we have met:
Numbers 21:21
Then Israel sent messengers to Sihon king of the Amorites, saying,
Deuteronomy 2:26
"So I sent messengers from the wilderness of Kedemoth to Sihon the king of Heshbon, with words of peace, saying,
Deuteronomy 20:10-11
"When you draw near to a city to fight against it, offer terms of peace to it.
2 Kings 14:8-12
Then Amaziah sent messengers to Jehoash the son of Jehoahaz, son of Jehu, king of Israel, saying, "Come, let us look one another in the face."
Proverbs 25:8-9
do not hastily bring into court, for what will you do in the end, when your neighbor puts you to shame?
Matthew 18:15-16
"If your brother sins against you, go and tell him his fault, between you and him alone. If he listens to you, you have gained your brother.