Judges 11:12
And Jephthah sent messengers to the king of the sons of Ammon, saying, What have you to do with me, that you have come against me to fight in my land?
Numbers 20:14
And Moses sent messengers from Kadesh to the king of Edom, So says your brother Israel, You know all the trouble that has happened to us,
Numbers 21:21
And Israel sent messengers to Sihon king of the Amorites, saying,
Deuteronomy 2:26
And I sent messengers out of the wilderness of Kedemoth to Sihon king of Heshbon with words of peace, saying,
Deuteronomy 20:10-11
When you come near a city to fight against it, then shout peace to it.
2 Kings 14:8-12
Then Amaziah sent messengers to Jehoash the son of Jehoahaz son of Jehu, king of Israel, saying, Come, let us look one another in the face.
Proverbs 25:8-9
Do not go forth quickly to fight, lest you know not what to do in the end of it, when your neighbor has put you to shame.
Matthew 18:15-16
But if your brother shall trespass against you, go and tell him his fault between you and him alone. If he hears you, you have gained your brother.