It is expedient, therefore, that the bishop be blameless, the husband of only one wife, vigilant, temperate, of worldly affections mortified, given to hospitality, apt to teach;

The husband

They shall not take a wife that is a whore or profane; neither shall they take a woman put away from her husband; for he is holy unto his God.

Neither shall they take for their wives a widow, nor her that is put away: but they shall take virgins of the seed of the house of Israel, or a widow that had a priest before.

And did he not make one, having in himself abundance of the Spirit? And why one? That he might seek offspring of God. Therefore take heed to your spirit and let no one deal treacherously against the wife of his youth.

There was in the days of Herod, the king of Judaea, a certain priest named Zacharias, of the course of Abia, and his wife was of the daughters of Aaron, and her name was Elisabeth.

Let the deacons be the husbands of only one wife, ruling their children and their own houses well.

Having

For I know him, that he will command his sons and his household after him, and they shall keep the way of the LORD, to do righteousness and judgment, that the LORD may bring upon Abraham that which he has spoken of him.

And Elkanah went to Ramah to his house. And the child ministered unto the LORD before Eli the priest.

In that day I will perform against Eli all the things which I have spoken concerning his house; when I begin, I will also make an end.

one that rules well his own house, having his children in subjection with all integrity;

Not

Whosoever keeps the law is a wise son, but he that is a companion of gluttons shames his father.

Or

For there are many insubordinate and vain talkers and deceivers of souls, especially those of the circumcision,

We also exhort you, brethren, that you warn those that are unruly, comfort the fainthearted, support the weak, be patient with everyone.

General references

and they shall take other stones and put them in the place of the stones that were removed; and he shall take other mortar and shall plaster the house.

Thus hath the Lord GOD said; No son of a stranger, uncircumcised in heart nor uncircumcised in flesh shall enter into my sanctuary, of any sons of strangers that are among the sons of Israel.