A minister then must be a man of irreproachable character, true to his one wife, temperate, sober-minded, well-behaved, hospitable to strangers, and with a gift for teaching;

The husband

There was in the time of Herod, the king of Judaea, a priest of the name of Zechariah, belonging to the class of Abijah. He had a wife who was a descendant of Aaron, and her name was Elizabeth.

A deacon must be true to his one wife, and rule his children and his own household wisely and well.

Having

but ruling his own household wisely and well, with children kept under control with true dignity.

Or

For there are many that spurn authority--idle, talkative and deceitful persons, who, for the most part, are adherents of the Circumcision.

And we exhort you, brethren, admonish the unruly, comfort the timid, sustain the weak, and be patient towards all.