'Deference' in the Bible

Jesus said to them, “A prophet is not without honor (respect) except in his hometown and among his relatives and in his own household.”

For Moses said, ‘Honor your father and your mother [with respect and gratitude]’; and, ‘He who speaks evil of his father or mother must be put to death’;

to be subject to such leaders [treating them with courtesy and respect], and to everyone who helps in the work and labors [for the benefit of yourselves and the church].