1 Corinthians 4:21

Which would you chuse, that I should come to you arm'd with resentment? or, in a mild and benevolent temper?

2 Corinthians 13:2

I told you once before, and now being absent I write to forewarn you and all that have sinned, that when I shall arrive, I will not spare them;

2 Corinthians 1:23

I call God to witness, and may I die if it is not true, that the reason of my not coming yet to Corinth, was to avoid using any severity towards you.

2 Corinthians 13:10

these things therefore I write to you being absent, that when I come I may not use severity, according to the power which the Lord hath given me for edification, and not for destruction.

1 Corinthians 5:5

to deliver him up to satan, to suffer corporal punishment, that his spirit may be saved in the day of the Lord Jesus Christ.

2 Corinthians 2:1

But I purposed in my self, I would not be the occasion of any uneasiness to you when I come again.

2 Corinthians 2:3

and I wrote to you upon that disagreeable subject, that when I came, I might not receive uneasiness from those from whom I ought to receive comfort, being persuaded that you will all think yourselves interested to promote my satisfaction.

2 Corinthians 3:10

since that which distinguished the first had no glory, when compared to that of the other, which far excell'd it.

2 Corinthians 10:1-2

I who am a person of a mean presence, when among you, but exert myself upon your account, when absent; I Paul intreat you by the meekness and gentleness of Christ, not to let me exert that authority,

2 Corinthians 10:6

and I am prepar'd, when you have discharg'd your duty, to make examples of the rest for their disobedience.

2 Corinthians 10:8

for though I should more than ever magnify my authority, which the Lord hath given us for your improvement, and not for your ruin, I should have no reason to be ashamed;

2 Corinthians 12:20-21

yet I fear when I do come I shall not find you such as I would, and that you will find me such as you least desire: I am afraid there are among you debates, envyings, animosities, strifes, backbitings, whisperings, arrogance, tumults:

1 Thessalonians 2:7

we behav'd to you with a tender regard, even as a mother, who nurses her own children.

James 3:17

but wisdom deriv'd from heaven is first dispassionate, then pacific, equitable, and obsequious: full of beneficence, and all social virtue, free from partiality, and hypocrisy.

Treasury of Scripture Knowledge

Summary

What will ye? shall I come unto you with a rod, or in love, and in the spirit of meekness?

Bible References

Shall

1 Corinthians 5:5
to deliver him up to satan, to suffer corporal punishment, that his spirit may be saved in the day of the Lord Jesus Christ.
2 Corinthians 10:2
when I am present, which I think to exercise against some, who censure me, as if I was actuated by worldly views.
2 Corinthians 12:20
yet I fear when I do come I shall not find you such as I would, and that you will find me such as you least desire: I am afraid there are among you debates, envyings, animosities, strifes, backbitings, whisperings, arrogance, tumults:
2 Corinthians 13:2
I told you once before, and now being absent I write to forewarn you and all that have sinned, that when I shall arrive, I will not spare them;
2 Corinthians 3:10
since that which distinguished the first had no glory, when compared to that of the other, which far excell'd it.

And

2 Corinthians 10:1
I who am a person of a mean presence, when among you, but exert myself upon your account, when absent; I Paul intreat you by the meekness and gentleness of Christ, not to let me exert that authority,
1 Thessalonians 2:7
we behav'd to you with a tender regard, even as a mother, who nurses her own children.
James 3:17
but wisdom deriv'd from heaven is first dispassionate, then pacific, equitable, and obsequious: full of beneficence, and all social virtue, free from partiality, and hypocrisy.