1 Timothy 3:12
Let the deacons be husbands of one wife, ruling their children and their own houses well.
1 Timothy 3:2
A bishop therefore must be blameless, the husband of one wife, vigilant, prudent, of good behaviour, hospitable, apt to teach;
Philippians 1:1
Paul and Timotheus, the servants of Jesus Christ, to all the saints who are at Philippi, with the bishops and deacons,
1 Timothy 3:4-5
Ruling his own house well, having his children in subjection with all seriousness.
1 Timothy 3:8
Likewise the deacons must be serious, not double tongued, not given to much wine, not desirous of filthy gain: Holding fast the mystery of the faith in a pure conscience.