2 Samuel 19:43

And the men of Israel answered the men of Judah and said, We have ten parts in the king, and we also have more right in David than you. Why then did you despise us, so that our advice should not be sought first in bringing back our king? And the words of the men of Judah were more fierce than the words of the men of Israel.

2 Samuel 5:1

And all the tribes of Israel came to David, to Hebron, and spoke, saying, Behold, we are your bone and your flesh.

Galatians 5:20

idolatry, sorcery, hatreds, fightings, jealousies, angers, rivalries, divisions, heresies,

Judges 8:1

And the men of Ephraim said to him, What is this thing you have done to us, not to call us when you went to fight with the Midianites? And they rebuked him sharply.

Judges 9:23

And God sent an evil spirit between Abimelech and the men of Shechem. And the men of Shechem dealt treacherously with Abimelech,

Judges 12:1-6

And the men of Ephraim were called together and went northward, and said to Jephthah, Why did you go over to fight against the sons of Ammon, and did not call us to go with you? We will burn your house upon you with fire.

2 Samuel 19:9

And it happened, all the people quarreled throughout all the tribes of Israel, saying, The king saved us out of the hand of our enemies, and he delivered us out of the hand of the Philistines. And now he has fled out of the land from Absalom.

2 Samuel 19:14

And he bowed the heart of all the men of Judah, even as one man, so that they sent to the king, saying, Return, you and all your servants.

2 Samuel 20:1

And there happened to be there a man of Belial named Sheba, the son of Bichri, a Benjamite. And he blew a ram's horn and said, We have no part in David, neither do we have any inheritance in the son of Jesse. Every man to his tents, O, Israel!

2 Samuel 20:6

And David said to Abishai, And Sheba the son of Bichri shall do us more harm than Absalom. You take your lord's servants and pursue him, lest he get himself into fortified cities and escape us.

1 Kings 11:30-31

And Ahijah caught hold of the new robe on him, and tore it in twelve pieces.

1 Kings 12:16

And all Israel saw that the king did not listen to them, and the people answered the king, saying, What part do we have in David? Yea, there is no inheritance in the son of Jesse. To your tents, O Israel! Now see to your house, O David! And Israel went to its tents.

Proverbs 13:10

Only by pride comes argument, but with those who take advice is wisdom.

Proverbs 15:1

A soft answer turns away wrath, but grievous words stir up anger.

Proverbs 17:14

The beginning of strife is like letting out water; therefore leave off fighting, before it breaks out.

Proverbs 18:19

A brother offended is like a strong city; and their disagreements are like the bars of a fortress.

Romans 12:21

Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.

Galatians 5:15

But if you bite and devour one another, take heed that you are not consumed by one another.

Galatians 5:26

Let us not become glory-seeking, provoking one another, envying one another.

Philippians 2:3

Let nothing be done through strife or vainglory, but in lowliness of mind let each esteem others better than themselves.

James 1:20

For the wrath of man does not work out the righteousness of God.

James 3:2-10

For in many things we all offend. If anyone does not offend in word, the same is a full-grown man, able also to bridle the whole body.

James 3:14-16

But if you have bitter jealousy and strife in your hearts, do not glory and lie against the truth.

James 4:1-5

From where do wars and fightings among you come? Is it not from this, from your lusts which war in your members?

Treasury of Scripture Knowledge

Summary

And the men of Israel answered the men of Judah, and said, We have ten parts in the king, and we have also more right in David than ye: why then did ye despise us, that our advice should not be first had in bringing back our king? And the words of the men of Judah were fiercer than the words of the men of Israel.

General references

Bible References

We have

2 Samuel 20:1
And there happened to be there a man of Belial named Sheba, the son of Bichri, a Benjamite. And he blew a ram's horn and said, We have no part in David, neither do we have any inheritance in the son of Jesse. Every man to his tents, O, Israel!
1 Kings 12:16
And all Israel saw that the king did not listen to them, and the people answered the king, saying, What part do we have in David? Yea, there is no inheritance in the son of Jesse. To your tents, O Israel! Now see to your house, O David! And Israel went to its tents.

Ten parts

2 Samuel 5:1
And all the tribes of Israel came to David, to Hebron, and spoke, saying, Behold, we are your bone and your flesh.
Proverbs 13:10
Only by pride comes argument, but with those who take advice is wisdom.

Our advice

2 Samuel 19:9
And it happened, all the people quarreled throughout all the tribes of Israel, saying, The king saved us out of the hand of our enemies, and he delivered us out of the hand of the Philistines. And now he has fled out of the land from Absalom.
Galatians 5:20
idolatry, sorcery, hatreds, fightings, jealousies, angers, rivalries, divisions, heresies,
Philippians 2:3
Let nothing be done through strife or vainglory, but in lowliness of mind let each esteem others better than themselves.

General references

Proverbs 26:4
Do not answer a fool according to his foolishness, lest you also be like him.