2 Samuel 19:43

The Israelites replied: We have ten times as many claims on King David as you have! We know he is one of you. Why do you look down on us? Do not forget that we were the first to talk about bringing the king back! The men of Judah were more violent in making their claims than the men of Israel.

2 Samuel 5:1

All the tribes of Israel came to David at Hebron and said to him: We are your own flesh and blood.

Galatians 5:20

idolatry, sorcery, enmities, strife, jealousy, wrath, contentions, divisions, sects,

Judges 8:1

Then the people of Ephraim said to Gideon: Why did you not call us when you went to fight the Midianites? Why did you treat us like this? They complained bitterly about it.

Judges 9:23

God sent an evil spirit between Abimelech and the men of Shechem. The men of Shechem dealt treacherously with Abimelech:

Judges 12:1-6

The men of Ephraim were ready for battle. They crossed the Jordan River to Zaphon and said to Jephthah: Why did you cross the border to fight the Ammonites without calling us to go with you? We are going to burn the house down over your head!

2 Samuel 19:9

All the people in all the tribes of Israel argued with one another. They said: The king rescued us from our enemies and saved us from the Philistines. Now he has fled from Absalom and left the country.

2 Samuel 19:14

All the people of Judah were in total agreement. So they sent the king this message: Come back with all your servants.

2 Samuel 20:1

A worthless character named Sheba son of Bikri lived at Gilgal. He was of the tribe of Benjamin. He blew the trumpet and called out: Down with David! We will not follow him! Men of Israel, let us go home!

2 Samuel 20:6

David said to Abishai: Sheba will hurt us more than Absalom ever did. Take my best soldiers and go after him. We do not want him to take over any walled cities and get away from us.

1 Kings 11:30-31

Ahijah took his new robe in his hands and tore it into twelve pieces.

1 Kings 12:16

When all Israel realized that the king would not respond to their request, the people in answer said to the king: What share do we have in David? What is our heritage in the son of Jesse? To your tents, O Israel; now see to your people, David. So Israel went away to their tents.

Proverbs 13:10

Pride brings contention, but wisdom is with the well advised.

Proverbs 15:1

A mild answer turns away anger. Harsh words stir up anger.

Proverbs 17:14

Starting a quarrel is like releasing water [from a floodgate]. Therefore stop contention before it begins.

Proverbs 18:19

A brother offended is harder to be won than a strong city. Their arguments are like the bars of a castle.

Romans 12:21

Do not be evil, but overcome evil with good.

Galatians 5:15

But if you continue to bite and devour one another, take care that you do not consume one another.

Galatians 5:26

Let us not become egotistical, stirring up competition with one another, envying one another.

Philippians 2:3

Do nothing from selfish ambition or conceit, but in humility consider others more important than you.

James 1:20

The anger of man does not promote the righteousness of God.

James 3:2-10

We all stumble in many things. If any do not stumble in word, he is a perfect man, able to restrain (control) the whole body.

James 3:14-16

If you have bitter jealousy (envy) and greedy ambition in your heart, do not be arrogant and lie against the truth.

James 4:1-5

What causes wars and fighting among you? Is the cause of fighting your sensual lusts for pleasure that battle within you?

Treasury of Scripture Knowledge

Summary

And the men of Israel answered the men of Judah, and said, We have ten parts in the king, and we have also more right in David than ye: why then did ye despise us, that our advice should not be first had in bringing back our king? And the words of the men of Judah were fiercer than the words of the men of Israel.

General references

Bible References

We have

2 Samuel 20:1
A worthless character named Sheba son of Bikri lived at Gilgal. He was of the tribe of Benjamin. He blew the trumpet and called out: Down with David! We will not follow him! Men of Israel, let us go home!
1 Kings 12:16
When all Israel realized that the king would not respond to their request, the people in answer said to the king: What share do we have in David? What is our heritage in the son of Jesse? To your tents, O Israel; now see to your people, David. So Israel went away to their tents.

Ten parts

2 Samuel 5:1
All the tribes of Israel came to David at Hebron and said to him: We are your own flesh and blood.
Proverbs 13:10
Pride brings contention, but wisdom is with the well advised.

Our advice

2 Samuel 19:9
All the people in all the tribes of Israel argued with one another. They said: The king rescued us from our enemies and saved us from the Philistines. Now he has fled from Absalom and left the country.
Galatians 5:20
idolatry, sorcery, enmities, strife, jealousy, wrath, contentions, divisions, sects,
Philippians 2:3
Do nothing from selfish ambition or conceit, but in humility consider others more important than you.

General references

Proverbs 26:4
Do not answer a fool according to his folly, or you will be like him.