Now the overseer must be above reproach, the husband of [only] one wife, sober-minded [Note: When this word, used here figuratively, is used in its literal sense, it means to abstain from intoxicating drinks], sensible, respectable, hospitable, capable of teaching.

The husband

In the days of King Herod, of Judea, there was a certain priest named Zacharias of the "Abijah" division. He had a wife named Elizabeth who was a descendant of Aaron.

Deacons should be husbands of one wife, managing their children and their own family affairs well.

Having

[He must] manage his own family well and, with dignity, keep his children in subjection [or, "respectful"].

Or

For there are many rebellious people, especially among the circumcision [i.e., the Jews], whose talk is useless and who deceive people.

And we urge you, brothers, to warn those who are idle [Note: The word "idle" originally meant, "insubordinate, or unruly." See II Thess. 3:6-7, 11], encourage those who are timid, help the [spiritually] weak and be patient with everyone.