'Controlled' in the Bible

Yet Haman controlled himself and went home. He sent for his friends and his wife Zeresh to join him.

Do not be like a horse or mule,without understanding,that must be controlled with bit and bridleor else it will not come near you.

An overseer, therefore, must be above reproach, the husband of one wife, self-controlled, sensible, respectable, hospitable, an able teacher,

Wives, too, must be worthy of respect, not slanderers, self-controlled, faithful in everything.

but hospitable, loving what is good, sensible, righteous, holy, self-controlled,

Older men are to be level headed, worthy of respect, sensible, and sound in faith, love, and endurance.