Well, for the office of a bishop a man must be above reproach; he must be only married once, he must be temperate, master of himself, unruffled, hospitable, a skilled teacher,

The husband

In the days of Herod king of Judaea there was a priest called Zechariah, who belonged to the division of Abijah; he had a wife who belonged to the daughters of Aaron, and her name was Elizabeth.

Deacons are only to be married once, and they must manage their children and households properly.

Having

able to manage his own household properly and keep his children submissive and perfectly respectful

Or

For there are plenty of insubordinate creatures who impose on people with their empty arguments, particularly those who have come over from Judaism;

We beseech you, brothers, keep a check upon loafers, encourage the faint-hearted, sustain weak souls, never lose your temper with anyone;