'Controlling' in the Bible

However, when all things are subjected to Him (Christ), then the Son Himself will also be subjected to the One (the Father) who put all things under Him, so that God may be all in all [manifesting His glory without any opposition, the supreme indwelling and controlling factor of life].

Women are to be serious in behaviour, saying no evil of others, controlling themselves, true in all things.

So it is my desire that the younger widows may be married and have children, controlling their families, and giving the Evil One no chance to say anything against them,

If anyone thinks he is religious without controlling his tongue, then his religion is useless and he deceives himself.