'Urge' in the Bible

Older men are to be temperate, dignified, sensible, sound in faith, in love, in steadfastness [Christlike in character].

In a similar way urge the young men to be sensible and self-controlled and to behave wisely [taking life seriously].

Tell them these things. Encourage and rebuke with full authority. Let no one disregard or despise you [conduct yourself and your teaching so as to command respect].