'Tenderly' in the Bible

For no one has ever hated his own body, but he nourishes and tenderly cares for it, as the Messiah does the church.

Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger [do not exasperate them to the point of resentment with demands that are trivial or unreasonable or humiliating or abusive; nor by showing favoritism or indifference to any of them], but bring them up [tenderly, with lovingkindness] in the discipline and instruction of the Lord.