'Obtain' in the Bible
Sarai said to Abram, "See now, Yahweh has restrained me from bearing. Please go in to my handmaid. It may be that I will obtain children by her." Abram listened to the voice of Sarai.
She said, "Behold, my maid Bilhah. Go in to her, that she may bear on my knees, and I also may obtain children by her."
For whoever finds me, finds life, and will obtain favor from Yahweh.
A gracious woman obtains honor, but violent men obtain riches.
A good man shall obtain favor from Yahweh, but he will condemn a man of wicked devices.
The Yahweh's ransomed ones will return, and come with singing to Zion; and everlasting joy will be on their heads. They will obtain gladness and joy, and sorrow and sighing will flee away."
The ransomed of Yahweh shall return, and come with singing to Zion; and everlasting joy shall be on their heads: they shall obtain gladness and joy; [and] sorrow and sighing shall flee away.
In his place shall stand up a contemptible person, to whom they had not given the honor of the kingdom: but he shall come in time of security, and shall obtain the kingdom by flatteries.
Blessed are the merciful, for they shall obtain mercy.
But Peter said to him, "May your silver perish with you, because you thought you could obtain the gift of God with money!
What then? That which Israel seeks for, that he didn't obtain, but the chosen ones obtained it, and the rest were hardened.
even so these also have now been disobedient, that by the mercy shown to you they may also obtain mercy.
Therefore I endure all things for the chosen ones' sake, that they also may obtain the salvation which is in Christ Jesus with eternal glory.
Women received their dead by resurrection. Others were tortured, not accepting their deliverance, that they might obtain a better resurrection.
You lust, and don't have. You kill, covet, and can't obtain. You fight and make war. You don't have, because you don't ask.