'Obtain' in the Bible
But Peter said to him, "May your silver perish with you, because you thought you could obtain the gift of God with money!
What then? That which Israel seeks for, that he didn't obtain, but the chosen ones obtained it, and the rest were hardened.
even so these also have now been disobedient, that by the mercy shown to you they may also obtain mercy.
Therefore I endure all things for the chosen ones' sake, that they also may obtain the salvation which is in Christ Jesus with eternal glory.
Women received their dead by resurrection. Others were tortured, not accepting their deliverance, that they might obtain a better resurrection.
You lust, and don't have. You kill, covet, and can't obtain. You fight and make war. You don't have, because you don't ask.