He must manage his own household well, keeping his children under control with all dignity

Deacons must be the husband of one wife, and must manage their children and their households well.

For those who have served well as deacons gain for themselves a high standing and great confidence in the faith that is in Christ Jesus.

Command these things as well, so that they may be above reproach.

and she must be well known for her good deeds, as one who has brought up children, shown hospitality, washed the feet of the saints, relieved those in distress, and devoted herself to doing good in every way.

The elders who rule well are to be considered worthy of double honor, especially those who work hard at preaching and teaching.