But the man who is firm in his commitment, and is under no necessity but has control over his will, and has decided in his own mind to keep his own virgin, does well.

So then, the one who marries his own virgin does well, but the one who does not, does better.

Am I saying these things only on the basis of common sense, or does the law not say this as well?

For you are certainly giving thanks well, but the other person is not strengthened.