Therefore I say this, and witness in the Lord, that you no longer walk about as the Gentiles also walk about in the vanity of their mind,

But you did not so learn Christ:

Therefore see how you walk about circumspectly, not as unwise, but wise;

But as the church is submissive to Christ, so also let the wives be to their husbands in everything.

So the husbands ought to love their own wives with divine love as their own bodies. The one loving his own wife is loving himself: